I had a friend addicted friend in my apartment and he stole alot of expensive posessions of mine. I have not got anything back yet. He wanted to have a relationship with me but I was afraid because of diseases etc. He stole alot of expensive gifts from family and personal family pictures and personal mail and magazines money making magazines and my songwriting material and christian writing material in a special personal notebook from my sister. also some ministry material and personal information in notebooks concerning health and financial special information.

Dear Kathy, Your "addicted friend" needs help! He sounds like he is more of a weight than a friend. You must be careful that he does not bring you down in the process. On my website; www.womensempowermentseminars.com there is a link under "Let's Chat", have him click on the site or click here for National Resources dealing with depression, loneliness, suicide, child abuse, domestic violence and addiction. You must use wisdom, he is not at a point that you can have a healthy relationship with him. There are billions of people in the world, trust and ask God to bring the right relationships into your life.

My husband of 20 years is having an affair with his ex wife. I moved out of our house and the afair is still going on. I love my husband very very much and I just dont know what to do.

Dear Lorna sometimes it is hard to say goodbye to someone you "love very, very much". There is nothing new under the sun. Long ago it was hard for Hagar to say goodbye to Abraham, the father of her child Ishmael. Like yourself, Hagar was caught up in a triangular relationship with Abraham's first wife, Sarah. God heard and felt Hagar's pain and promised her that he would make her seed into a great nation. Your husband has made his choice- don't cry over spilt milk, better days are ahead. If you are a believer, trust that God will see you through this break up as he did Hagar and bring loving individuals into your life. You are worthy of a relationship with a man that puts you and only you first in his life!

i am a mother of two boys, my husband passed a way like 8 years ago. Just two years i met someone how promise to love me and my two boys, but of recent i had that he is dating someone and when i ask him he denied, this has changed my hart and i dont trust him anymore. I love him and i dont want to live without him. please advice me. .

Dear Jane, the death of a love one is extremely painful and may take years to overcome It can cause deep anxiety, depression, and loneliness. As a single parent you have to protect your 2 sons. Anyone you date and then break up with will reawaken the loss of their dad. Strengthen yourself by joining a support group for bereaved spouses; a church singles group, exercising, and/or pursuing a hobby that keeps your mind off of your troubles. Your friend may sense your weakness and may use it to his advantage. If you can't trust him, you don't have a relationship. Go with your feelings, don't rush into a relationship. If he loves you, he will respect you, your sons, and put a ring on your finger. Remember, you deserve the best(3 John 1:2)!

Hello, I'm person that has battled many type of abuses. I would like to speak to you one on one to discuss how you can help me to get together a seminar in my community. Please contact me that we may speak further. Cheryl

Hi Cheryl, I would love to help you form a seminar on ending abuse in your community. The best time to reach me would be after 7pm EST at 404-202-8776. My email is rainp1@bellsouth.net Dear Joyce